Low Self Confidence
Self confidence is the backbone of our daily conduct in life, it is what will lead us to conquering the goals we set for ourselves, or what will stop us from even trying.
Self confidence and self worth are actually being built gradually from birth and throughout the years.
It directly depends on your child experiences and the type of communications you experienced with your parents or the main caretaker in your life. And also from feedback you received throughout the years.
It is also related to the different events you lived through. Your environment also has significant influence over the level of your self confidence.
Meaning our personal traits also affect whether our self confidence will be high or low.
You could also make the opposite claim, that self confidence influences the development of personality traits in addition to our innate traits inherited from our parents, and the patterns of behavior we emulate from our environment.
Many people feel low in confidence, only confident in their ill fate, and frustrated with the social hardships stemming from their low confidence levels.
Some are searching how to cope and change their situation, and improve their quality of life.
High confidence level is not just an innate trait!
Not only those who were lucky to grow in optimal conditions and experience a happy and empowering childhood, that built them to be confident adults with many strengths, can have high self confidence.
Truthfully, this approach (according to which some people are lucky to be born with high self confidence) is inherently wrong and sadly makes many people dig in within themselves.
They live their lives without trying to bring on any significant changes to increase their confidence level.
The feeling of self confidence is directly synchronized with our inner belief in ourselves, and the beliefs invested in us by important people in our lives.
It is definitely possible to create a change during our lives, through adolescence and adulthood.
It is important to want the change and be ready to work for it. You will be surprised with what you can achieve.
Boosting your self confidence can bring inner peace, development of ambition and motivation, relationship growth, connection with your children, your friends and environment, with your boss and colleagues at work, and in any other aspect in your life where you find difficulty, shame or feeling of inferiority.